Validation from within can never be taken away.
Validation from within can never be taken away.
When you choose to believe in yourself, you’re ignoring the status quo that says you require approval from others in order to proceed with your belief in you.
Hello friends,
Many of us, myself included, have been the cheerleaders and validators for others in our lifetime - whether friends, family, students, clients, co-workers, strangers we meet and encourage. Others have done this for us too - hopefully you’ve been able to be on both the giving and receiving end of this. I am grateful for the kind people in my life, who have encouraged me, even those times when I couldn’t quite hear their positive words.
A kind word and non-judgmental attitude can go a long way to helping another person take a step, let go, or feel better about themselves.
Mind you, and this is something I had to learn the hard way over many years, we cannot do it for them. The work of healing and letting go is theirs, they get to choose how or when or if - they will grow and heal. Someone may look like they cannot hear a word you said or have any of the validation you sent their way right now, but they might also come back hours, weeks, or years later, and let you know that your kindness made a difference for them and was a helpful energy on their path. Or not.
Meanwhile, you were not the one who got to decide whether they would choose to heal themselves. Neither am I.
This week’s focus, and probably for a few weeks to come - is self validation. It’s the energy I’m looking at for myself, and it’s what I’ll be writing about and sharing here.
The energy of self validation is just that - it’s energy. You can feel it, know it, and see it. It can be read as an energy, and the energies that block it can be released. I’ve created a special new reading that focuses on having your validation from within, called The Validation Reading.
What does it look like and feel like when you have your own validation, from within yourself? This reading is a look at the energy of knowing you have value, for simply being you. Included in this session is any energy work you would like to have, to help release old programming and energies that get in the way of you knowing your own worth.
Special price of $160.00 through 2/28/23, normally priced at $175.00 for 45 minutes.
Newly published:
Is it time for self validation?
When you’re on a journey of self awareness and discovery, it can be all too easy to focus on the places you have gotten stuck in your life.
As you dive into the work of knowing who you really are, you come face to face with all of the things you’ve tried and failed to be.
That's the perfect time to take a self validation break, and remind yourself how far you've come.
Your crown has been bought and paid for. Put it on your head and wear it. -Dr. Maya Angelou
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